我的美丽日记

Can know 18 months old Jonas is a jealousy boy. He is not allow people to hug and hold other children.

For example, when I hold my SIL's son, he will scold and push him go and come towards me, ask me to hold him. After that SIL's son goes to my MIL side, Jonas will go back to MIL also.

I don't know whether is he jealous on SIL's son or he doesn't like we hold other kids.

Jonas was coughing for few weeks. We have sent him to western clinic and chinese clinic. my mum also bought Yu Yan Sang ' 3 bao' about RM 160++. Whatever we tried also no use.

Daytime he didn't cough but when comes to 4am or 5am, the weather becomes cold, he start to cough and this interrupt his sleeping.

MIL said he is cold cough and she wants to try to boil the soup with lamb + hong zhou + tong shem.

One week never have good night sleep. Tired and frustrated to Jonas to thrown tantrum. The way he throw tantrum is cry with shouting and screaming and beat himself. Don't know since when he start to be like that.

If we go to advise and talk with him, some more he cry more loudly, he beat his head himself and rubbing his legs. Sometimes he cry until vomit.

He request us to bring him out but he don't want to go back home. He also don't want to go back into the car. If we didn't fulfill his need, he will start to throw tantrum. After we bring him out, he will smile at you and play Miao.....jia with you. So fast he changed his emotional.

Maybe MIL will fulfill what his need when crying. This is become his habit that he knows somebody will fulfill him if he crying.

It's so sad to see him beat himself butI don't know how to stop him for this habit.

At home, I on the DVD and watch with Jonas and SILs 2 kids together. For the first and second episode, Jonas will sit there quietly and watch it. When comes to the 3rd episode, he start to feel boring. Hehe... I also feel boring.

Jonas prefer Barney and High-5, maybe those are more on dancing and singing.

This morning, as usual, I changed my clothes in the room to get ready going to work. 

Suddenly Jonas asked me: What are you doing (in mandarin) ? Even though his pronousation was not correct but I was so happy and surprised that he can pronouns more than 1 word. Before that, he was only pronouns 1 word like bird, dog, want (mandarin) etc..., sometimes can said Hokkien.